So this post has been in my mind for a while, finally taking the time to get it out online.
Some people can define their relationships through places they visited with their partner, or food they ate together. I think it’s most common to define relationships through music. Thinking back on the men I’ve dated, I can relate a song to each one and what that song means to me when I hear it.
High school: The first big deal. The sun rose and set based on him, because I was 16 and what did I know?
He loved Cam’ron. Like, loved him. Loved Dipset, knew all the words. In my mind, the music was gibberish and I told him as much on many occasions. But over time, I began to enjoy the music for the creativity and spontaneity. It didn’t matter that half of what Cam’ron said was made up. Just have fun. That was the attitude I took with me to college.